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Are You Abused?
Abusive Relationships are characterized by
Fear! Power! Control!
There are at least seven kinds of abuse:
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Psychological Abuse
• Throwing things
• Slamming doors
• Driving recklessly
• Breaking personal items
• Trying to hit partner with car
• Breaking objects
• Punching walls or doors
• Kicking furniture, car or walls
• Threatening with an object
• Locking partner out of the house
• Tearing or destroying clothes
• Intimidation
• Accusations of insanity
• Threatening to harm partner or others
• Threatening to kidnap partner or the children
• Harassing phone calls, emails or texts
• Killing pets
• Destroying property
Emotional Abuse
• Constant criticism
• Constant belittling
• Humiliating their partner in public and in private
• Ignoring
• The silent treatment
• Putting others down
• Threatening suicide
Verbal Abuse
• Ridiculing their partners beliefs or religion
• Insulting their race, heritage, or class
• Shouting
• Being sarcastic
• Name calling
• Yelling
• Insulting family and friends
• Laughing at others
Isolation
• Cutting partner off from friends and family
• Controlling what their partner does
• Controlling whom their partner sees
• Controlling whom their partner talks to
• Controlling where their partner goes
• Controlling every aspect of their partner's life
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Economic Abuse
•Making partner financially dependant
• Maintaining total control over both incomes
• Withholding money or access to money
• Trying to keep partner from getting or keeping a job
• Making partner ask for money
• Giving partner an allowance
• Requiring partner to justify all money spent
Sexual Abuse
• Coerced (non-consensual) sexual contact
• Undermining their partner's sexuality
• Treating partner as a sex object
• Unfounded accusations of infidelity
• Unfaithfulness
• Hurtful sex
• Forced sex with someone other than partner
Physical Abuse
• Grabbing
• Pushing
• Pulling
• Slapping
• Burning
• Shooting
• Stabbing
• Hair pulling
• Arm twisting
• Punching
• Pinching
• Shoving
• Choking
• Spanking
• Kicking
• Biting
• Spitting
• Restraining
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